Run high-signal founder meetings: prep with kill questions, structure the conversation, capture decision-relevant notes, and send crisp follow-ups within 2 hours. Use when taking first meetings, doing partner prep, or screening deals.
State what would change your mind (and when to reconnect)
6) Passing well
Rules for passing:
Pass quickly (within 48 hours of decision)
Be direct in the first sentence
Give a real reason, not "timing" or "fit"
Leave the door open with specifics
Good pass:
"After discussing internally, we're going to pass on this round. Our main concern is [specific reason]. If we saw [specific evidence], we'd love to reconnect. In the meantime, [one helpful suggestion]."
Bad pass:
"Unfortunately, this isn't the right fit for us at this time. Best of luck with your fundraise!"
Salesforce logging (REQUIRED, within 2 hours)
Minimum logging per meeting:
Event/Activity with 5-bullet notes attached
Opportunity created or updated with current stage
Task for next step with owner and due date
Pass reason (if passing) + "what would change our mind" + recheck date
Use salesforce-crm-ops for API-level logging.
Interview craft (advanced)
Building rapport without wasting time:
One genuine observation from your prep (not generic flattery)
Let them talk 70% of the time
Take notes visibly (shows you're listening)
Handling evasive answers:
If vague: "Can you give me a specific example?"
If no data: "What's the closest proxy you have?"
If deflecting: "I want to make sure I understand - [restate question]"
If still evasive after 2 attempts: note it as a red flag, move on
Handling overselling:
Acknowledge the positive, then probe
"That's great. What's the hardest part of that?"
"What would have to go wrong for that to fail?"
Silence is useful:
After a question, let them think
Don't fill awkward silences - founders often add important context
References to keep you sharp
Paul Graham essays for founder patterns and early-stage behavior (e.g., "Do Things That Don't Scale").
Mark Suster's writing for board and fundraising dynamics.
(These are reading aids, not a substitute for evidence from the company.)
Edge cases
If the founder is evasive: ask for specifics (numbers, names, timelines). If still evasive after 2 attempts, treat as a red flag and document.
If you're missing data: propose the smallest next step that would resolve the top risk.
If the meeting runs long: protect the "next steps" section. End on clarity, not ambiguity.
If the founder asks for feedback: be honest and specific, even if uncomfortable.