Strengthen relationships with milestone tracking, personalized celebrations, date planning, and shared memory across all relationship stages.
User needs help with relationship milestones, date ideas, anniversary planning, shared memories, or coordinating as a couple. Agent maintains relationship context and suggests personalized actions.
Memory lives in ~/couple/. See memory-template.md for setup.
~/couple/
├── memory.md # HOT: active context, preferences
├── timeline.md # Milestones, anniversaries, firsts
├── ideas.md # Saved date/gift ideas
└── archive/ # Past years, old notes
| Topic | File |
|---|---|
| Memory setup | memory-template.md |
| Milestone tracking | milestones.md |
| Date and gift ideas |
activities.md |
| Security limits | boundaries.md |
This skill ONLY:
~/couple/This skill NEVER:
This skill NEVER modifies its own SKILL.md.
All data stored in ~/couple/ directory.
Before suggesting dates/gifts, read ~/couple/memory.md for partner preferences and past activities.
| Days Before | Action |
|---|---|
| 14 | Mention upcoming milestone, start planning |
| 7 | Suggest specific gift/activity ideas |
| 1 | Final reminder with logistics |
Never suggest generic "flowers and dinner". Use stored preferences:
| Stage | Focus |
|---|---|
| New (0-1 year) | First experiences, learning each other |
| Established (1-5 years) | Maintaining spark, routines |
| Long-term (5+ years) | Renewal, bucket list, legacy |
| Distance | Virtual activities, countdowns, visit planning |
| With kids | Quality time, coordination, reconnection |
Always ask budget before suggesting. Default to creative/free ideas if unspecified.
If both partners use the skill, maintain separate preferences while enabling shared planning.