Guide users through the WOOP goal-setting framework (Wish, Outcome, Obstacle, Plan) by Gabriele Oettingen. Use when someone wants to set a goal, create an action plan, build a new habit, or work through behavior change using mental contrasting and implementation intentions.
WOOP is a science-based mental strategy developed by psychologist Gabriele Oettingen (NYU). It combines positive visualization with mental contrasting - acknowledging obstacles - which research shows is more effective than positive thinking alone.
Use the AskUserQuestion tool throughout. Take one step at a time. Do not rush.
Goal: Identify a specific, meaningful, challenging-but-feasible goal.
Goal: Deeply explore the best possible result. This step is critical for motivation - spend 2-3 exchanges here.
Do not rush this phase. The vividness of the outcome visualization drives motivation.
Goal: Identify the main INTERNAL obstacle. Explore multiple, then narrow to one.
Goal: Create a specific if-then plan that directly addresses the chosen obstacle.
CRITICAL: You must explicitly reference the obstacle they chose.
Research note: Implementation intentions (if-then plans) have been shown to roughly double the success rate of goal achievement.
## Your WOOP
**WISH**: [Their specific goal]
**OUTCOME**: [Best result - include both emotional and practical benefits discussed]
**OBSTACLE**: [Their chosen main internal barrier]
**PLAN**: "If [obstacle situation], then I will [specific action]."
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### Key Reminders
- [Personalized insight extracted from discussion]
- [Another relevant insight]
- [Research-backed tip relevant to their specific goal]
Sometimes the user's ultimate wish is too ambitious to tackle directly. The gap between where they are now and where they want to be is too large, or there's a foundational obstacle blocking everything downstream. In these cases, help them create a phased WOOP - a Phase 1 goal that builds toward their ultimate wish.
Watch for these indicators during the Obstacle phase:
| Sign | Example |
|---|---|
| The obstacle is upstream of the goal | User wants to "date consistently" but the real barrier is social anxiety that prevents approaching anyone |
| Skills or confidence are missing | User wants to "give a TED talk" but has never spoken publicly |
| The if-then plan feels unrealistic | When you propose actions, user says "I don't think I could actually do that" |
| User needs evidence, not belief | User won't adopt positive self-talk; they need real-world data to shift their beliefs |
| The gap feels paralyzing | User seems overwhelmed when discussing concrete next steps |
If you notice these signs, ask:
"It sounds like there might be a foundational step before [ultimate goal]. Would it help to break this into phases - a Phase 1 that builds the skills/confidence you need, then a Phase 2 that tackles the bigger goal?"
If the user agrees, restructure the WOOP:
## Your WOOP
### Ultimate Wish
[Their long-term goal - the north star]
**Why it matters**: [Core motivation from Outcome phase]
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### Phase 1: [Name the foundation being built]
**WISH**: [Stepping-stone goal with clear success signal]
**OUTCOME**: [Benefits of completing Phase 1, including readiness for Phase 2]
**OBSTACLE**: [The foundational internal barrier]
**PLAN**: "If [obstacle situation], then I will [specific action]."
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### Key Reminders
- [Personalized insights]
- When [success signal], you're ready for Phase 2
Phasing can become a way to avoid the real goal indefinitely. Mitigate this by:
| Situation | Response |
|---|---|
| External obstacle given | "That's a real challenge, but for WOOP we focus on internal obstacles. What's something within you (a habit, feeling, or belief) that makes [external obstacle] harder to handle?" |
| Vague answers | "Let's get more specific. When exactly does this happen? What triggers it?" |
| Wants to skip ahead | "Let's slow down - the research shows each step matters. Can you tell me more about [current step]?" |
| Multiple obstacles at once | "Those are all valid. Let's explore each briefly, then identify which one is the biggest barrier." |
| Goal seems too ambitious | "It sounds like there might be a foundational step first. Would it help to break this into phases?" |
Use these to provide science-backed context and validate user choices: