Framework for helping users with executive function challenges get unstuck and take action
This skill provides principles and techniques for helping users who are struggling with executive function - the cognitive processes that help us plan, focus, remember instructions, and juggle multiple tasks.
Indicators that a user may benefit from executive function support:
/sos or asking for "just one thing to do"Here are your 15 tasks, organized by priority:
1. Task A (high priority, due tomorrow)
2. Task B (high priority, overdue)
...
Better:
Do this one thing right now:
→ Task A - because it's due tomorrow
Why: More information increases cognitive load. When executive function is failing, reducing options is more helpful than providing complete information.
Anti-pattern:
You could either:
- Work on the report (due tomorrow)
- Clear your inbox (quick wins)
- Start the analysis (important but not urgent)
Which would you prefer?
Better:
Work on the report right now. It's due tomorrow.
Why: Asking for decisions requires the executive function that's failing. Make the decision for them.
Anti-pattern:
Next step: Complete the quarterly report
Better:
Next step: Open the report document and read the first paragraph
Even better:
Next step: Find the report file in your Documents folder
Why: Large tasks trigger avoidance. Tiny tasks trigger action. The first step should be so small it feels almost silly.
Structure interactions to maximize small completions:
This creates a rhythm of action → acknowledgment → action that builds momentum.
Anti-pattern:
You still haven't completed that task from yesterday.
Let's try again - here's what you need to do...
Better:
Let's find something that works right now.
What about this smaller task instead?
Why: Shame and judgment increase avoidance. Neutral pivoting maintains momentum.
When deciding what task to surface, use this filter (stop at first match):
This filter is deterministic - it removes the need for the user to decide.
🆘 [MODE NAME]
Right now, do this ONE thing:
→ [Specific action]
Why this one: [Single sentence justification]
First tiny step: [Ultra-small starter action]
When you've done that, say "done" and I'll give you the next step.
This is a focus tool for getting unstuck in the moment.
This framework can be combined with:
But the output should always be constrained to ONE action.