Estate Planning & Legacy Protection for the Owens family. Tracks wills, trusts, beneficiary designations, life insurance, survivor benefits, and powers of attorney. Ensures Lindsey and the kids are protected if something happens to Tory. Triggers on: "Estate plan", "Will", "Life insurance", "Beneficiaries", "What happens if", "Legacy", "Survivor benefits", "Power of attorney", "Trust", "Estate check", "Beneficiary audit", "SGLI", "FSGLI", "Dependent education", "Chapter 35". The only estate plan that fails worse than a bad one is no plan at all.
Mission: Ensure that if Tory is incapacitated or dies, Lindsey and the three kids are financially protected, legally empowered, and not left navigating a maze of benefits, accounts, and paperwork in grief.
Tory has:
Without an estate plan, all of this becomes a legal and financial nightmare for Lindsey. Courts decide custody nuances. Default beneficiary designations may be wrong. Tax implications multiply. Benefits go unclaimed.
This skill exists because love isn't a plan. Documentation is.
Read current estate data:
~/Library/Mobile Documents/com~apple~CloudDocs/Family/Financial-Plan/Owens_Family_Financial_Plan.mdAudit estate readiness:
━━ ESTATE GUARD AUDIT — [DATE] ━━
DOCUMENT STATUS:
Will: [EXISTS / MISSING / STALE]
Revocable Living Trust: [EXISTS / MISSING / N/A]
Power of Attorney: [EXISTS / MISSING]
Healthcare Directive: [EXISTS / MISSING]
Guardian Designation: [EXISTS / MISSING]
Letter of Instruction: [EXISTS / MISSING]
BENEFICIARY AUDIT:
Transamerica 401k: [Named beneficiary: ___]
E*Trade Brokerage: [Named beneficiary: ___]
TSP: [Named beneficiary: ___]
Lilly Life Insurance: [Named beneficiary: ___]
SGLI/VGLI: [Named beneficiary: ___]
USAA Accounts: [Named beneficiary: ___]
Rental Property: [Title: joint / sole / trust?]
LIFE INSURANCE COVERAGE:
SGLI: $400,000 (if still eligible via Guard)
Lilly Group: $XXX,XXX (verify: 1x, 2x salary?)
VGLI: [converted? amount?]
Private: [any additional policies?]
TOTAL: $XXX,XXX
NEED: $XXX,XXX (see calculation below)
SURVIVOR BENEFIT ANALYSIS:
[What Lindsey and kids would receive monthly]
GAPS:
1. [Most critical gap]
2. [Second]
3. [Third]
PRIORITY ACTIONS:
1. [Most urgent action with deadline]
2. [Second]
3. [Third]
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Critical: Beneficiary designations on financial accounts OVERRIDE the will. A will that says "everything to Lindsey" is meaningless if an old 401k still lists an ex or a parent.
| Account | Current Beneficiary | Correct? | Last Verified |
|---|---|---|---|
| Transamerica 401k | ? | ? | ? |
| E*Trade Brokerage | ? | ? | ? |
| TSP | ? | ? | ? |
| Lilly Life Insurance | ? | ? | ? |
| SGLI/VGLI | ? | ? | ? |
| USAA Checking/Savings | ? | ? | ? |
| Rental Property (title) | ? | ? | ? |
| Lilly Pension | ? | ? | ? |
Action: Verify every beneficiary designation annually. Update after any life event (birth, death, divorce, marriage).
Lindsey's income need (if Tory dies):
Current household expenses: ~$8,668/mo
Minus Lindsey's TriMedX income: -$4,915/mo (after tax)
Minus VA DIC benefit: -$1,612/mo (if eligible — surviving spouse)
Minus Social Security survivor: -$X,XXX/mo (depends on earnings record)
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Monthly gap: $X,XXX/mo
Gap x 12 months x 20 years = $X,XXX,XXX needed
Plus:
- College fund (3 kids x $100K each): $300,000
- Mortgage payoff: $245,000
- Emergency buffer: $50,000
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TOTAL INSURANCE NEED: $X,XXX,XXX
SGLI: $400,000 (verify eligibility)
Lilly Group Life: $XXX,XXX
VGLI: $XXX,XXX (if converted)
Private Term: $XXX,XXX (if any)
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TOTAL COVERAGE: $XXX,XXX
GAP: $XXX,XXX
If there's a gap > $100K, flag immediately. Term life insurance is cheap for a 42-year-old.
| Event | Action |
|---|---|
| Birth/adoption | Update will, beneficiaries, insurance needs |
| Marriage/divorce | Complete estate overhaul |
| New job/income change | Recalculate insurance needs |
| Property purchase/sale | Update trust, title, insurance |
| Military status change | Review SBP, SGLI, Tricare |
| Annually (January) | Full beneficiary audit |
| Major market move | Review if coverage still adequate |
This is the document Lindsey actually opens first. Not the will, not the trust — this.
LETTER OF INSTRUCTION — Tory Owens
Last Updated: [Date]
FOR LINDSEY:
1. IMMEDIATE CONTACTS:
- Estate Attorney: [name, phone]
- Financial Advisor: [name, phone]
- VA Benefits: 1-800-827-1000
- Lilly HR Benefits: [number]
- USAA: [number]
- Insurance Agent: [name, phone]
2. WHERE TO FIND THINGS:
- Will: [location]
- Trust documents: [location]
- Life insurance policies: [location]
- This computer's password: [secure method]
- Password manager: [method]
- Financial accounts list: [see WealthBuilder app or Financial Plan]
3. FIRST 30 DAYS:
- File VA DIC claim (Form 21-534EZ)
- Contact Lilly HR for life insurance + pension survivor benefit
- Contact SGLI/VGLI for military life insurance
- Do NOT make any major financial decisions for 6 months
4. FINANCIAL ACCOUNTS:
[List every account with institution, account type, approximate value]
5. RECURRING OBLIGATIONS:
[Mortgage, car payment, insurance premiums, subscriptions to cancel]
6. FOR THE KIDS:
[Guardian wishes, education wishes, values to instill]
Estate planning is the one domain where procrastination has catastrophic consequences. Every other skill in this system can recover from missed data or stale estimates. This one can't. If Tory dies without a will, Indiana intestacy law decides. If beneficiaries are wrong, the wrong person gets the money. If there's no letter of instruction, Lindsey navigates the worst week of her life without a map.
Build the plan. Update the plan. Hope you never need the plan.