4-level tutor skill covering the full deal lifecycle — buying, structuring, negotiating, and exiting — using frameworks from Sam Parr, Shaan Puri, and MFM guests. Tutor pattern: ask before telling, ground in real quotes, guide real exercises.
Walk a founder through the full deal lifecycle — from sourcing acquisitions to structuring deals to negotiating terms to exiting — using real frameworks from [[frameworks/my-first-million|My First Million]] guests who have done it.
This is a TUTOR skill. Ask questions before giving answers. Build progressively. Each level ends with the user doing a real exercise.
The user wants to learn how deals work end-to-end, or they're at a specific stage and need coaching. They might say:
Ask: "Are you looking to buy something, sell something, or negotiate a deal that's already in motion?"
Based on their answer, route to the right level. If they want the full masterclass, start at Level 1. If they have an active deal, skip to whichever level matches their stage.
Before starting any level, ask 2-3 questions about their specific situation so the teaching lands on something real.
Before teaching anything, ask:
transcripts/mfm/2024-04-17-data-backed-businesses-guaranteed-to-make-1m-from-day-1.md)Sarah Moore built a machine for finding off-market deals. The system:
The key is volume. Most people send 5 letters and give up. Sarah sends hundreds.
Ask the user: "What category of business would you target? And how many owners could you realistically reach out to this month?"
transcripts/mfm/2024-04-17-data-backed-businesses-guaranteed-to-make-1m-from-day-1.md)[[frameworks/andrew-wilkinson|Andrew Wilkinson]]'s approach at Tiny Capital is different — he doesn't hunt, he positions.
"Hang around the hoop." — Andrew Wilkinson
Make it known in your industry that you buy businesses. Write about it. Talk about it. Show up at the conferences. When someone decides to sell, you want to be the first call they make — not the tenth.
Jeremy Giffin runs Tiny's deal flow. His version: build relationships with founders before they want to sell. Check in quarterly. When the moment comes, you're already trusted.
Ask the user: "In your industry, who already knows you? If someone in your space wanted to sell tomorrow, would they think of you?"
transcripts/mfm/2020-05-26-entrepreneur-who-lost-millions-breaks-down-how-to-come-back-financially.md)James Altucher breaks valuation into three approaches:
Earnings multiple. Take the annual profit (or EBITDA). Multiply by some number — typically 3-5x for small businesses, higher for tech/SaaS. A business making $200K/year profit might sell for $600K-$1M.
Formula method. Revenue times a standard industry multiplier. SaaS companies might trade at 5-10x revenue. Service businesses at 1-2x. The multiplier depends on growth rate, margins, and how defensible the business is.
Comps. What did similar businesses actually sell for? Check BizBuySell, look at public transactions, ask brokers. The market tells you what the market will pay.
Ask the user: "If you had to guess the annual profit of the business you're eyeing, what would you say? And do you know what similar businesses have sold for?"
transcripts/mfm/2021-04-28-how-to-buy-distressed-assets-how-to-network-with-codie-sanchez.md)[[frameworks/codie-sanchez|Codie Sanchez]] made her name buying businesses with little or no money down. The playbook:
The common thread: find owners who value "done" more than "maximum price."
Ask the user: "Do you know any business owners who seem tired, burned out, or ready to move on? That's where zero-dollar deals live."
Identify 3 businesses you could realistically pursue:
Write it out. Share it. Then we move to Level 2.
Every deal is some combination of:
The art is combining these so the deal works for both sides. The seller wants certainty. You want to minimize risk. The gap between those two things is where creativity lives.
transcripts/mfm/2025-08-06-these-4-math-equations-will-make-you-a-millionaire-alex-hormozi.md)[[frameworks/alex-hormozi|Alex Hormozi]]'s framework flips the script: design an offer so good that the revenue from the deal covers the acquisition cost.
The concept: before you close the acquisition, pre-sell a product or service to the existing customer base. Use that revenue as your down payment or to service the debt.
Ask the user: "If you bought your target business tomorrow, what could you sell to their existing customers in the first 30 days?"
transcripts/mfm/2023-01-24-behind-the-scenes-of-selling-my-company-for-millions-suli-ali-410.md)Suli Ali explained [[frameworks/private-equity|private equity]]'s simplest trick:
You buy three businesses at $1M each (3x on $333K profit each). Combined profit: $1M. Portfolio value at 8x: $8M. You paid $3M. That's the arbitrage.
This only works if you can actually operate the combined entity — integration is where rollups die.
Ask the user: "Could you buy 2-3 similar businesses and combine them? What would the combined entity look like?"
transcripts/mfm/2024-06-03-this-50myr-side-hustle-is-on-track-to-make-1-billion-by-2030.md)Preston Holland builds real estate projects using customer deposits before [[episodes/Dwi6UbdpZyk|breaking]] ground. The principle applies to any capital-intensive deal:
Ask the user: "Is there a way to validate demand for your target business before you close? Could you line up customers or contracts first?"
Take your top acquisition target from Level 1 and map out a deal structure:
Write it out as a simple term sheet. Then we move to negotiation.
transcripts/mfm/2025-09-17-5-lessons-in-business-negotiation-from-an-fbi-hostage-negotiator.md)Chris Voss was the FBI's lead international kidnapping negotiator. His system works in business because it works on the same brain.
"What do they most want to deny about me? Then say it yourself."
Before making your offer, list every negative thing the other side might think about you:
Say it first. Out loud. In the meeting. This deactivates the threat response. The brain is 75% oriented toward detecting threats — when you name the threat, it loses its power.
"Questions feel like interrogation; labels feel like understanding."
Replace direct questions with observations:
Labels open people up. Questions make them defensive.
"Instead of 'Do you want to talk about this?' ask 'Is it ridiculous to talk about what we're here for?'"
People feel safe saying no. They feel trapped saying yes. Use that:
Mentally reframe: you and the seller are sitting on the same side of the table. The problem — how to make this deal work for both of you — is on the other side.
Map the asymmetric trades:
| What I Need | What It Costs Them | What They Need | What It Costs Me |
|---|---|---|---|
Some things you need cost them nothing. Some things they need cost you nothing. Find those first. That's where deals get made.
If you're the seller, there's a trust play that filters out bad buyers and bonds the good ones:
"That dinner where you showed us the skeletons — that built so much trust."
Proactively table all the bad news about your business. Every skeleton in the closet. Frame it: "I want to make sure you fully understand what you're buying. Here are all the reasons you might not want to do this deal."
This does two things: it kills bad buyers early (saving you months), and it builds deep trust with serious buyers who read it as integrity.
transcripts/mfm/2022-04-14-elon-musk-offers-to-buy-twitter-for-43-billion-the-breakdown-by-my-first-million.md)When you have high conviction and want to skip the negotiation theater:
This only works when you genuinely have the conviction and the walk-away ability to back it up. If you're bluffing, it collapses.
Write your opening for the next conversation with your target seller (or a hypothetical one):
Share it. We'll refine it together before moving to Level 4.
transcripts/mfm/2023-01-24-behind-the-scenes-of-selling-my-company-for-millions-suli-ali-410.md)When someone shows interest in buying your business, the wrong responses are:
The right response:
"Looking at someone across the bar, catching their eyes for one second, smiling, then looking away."
Say: "We've had interest and had some conversations, but nothing felt right yet. We really respect you — if you want to talk, we're open."
This signals availability without desperation. It makes them pursue you.
transcripts/mfm/2020-05-26-entrepreneur-who-lost-millions-breaks-down-how-to-come-back-financially.md)James Altucher compares selling a company to dating:
Rushing to the LOI stage without building the relationship is like proposing on the first date. It might work, but the odds are terrible.
Ask the user: "If you were selling, who would be your ideal buyer? Why would they want what you have?"
Josh Payne sold his company for $80M and then hit an identity crisis. The pattern is common:
The question that matters isn't "how much will I get?" but "who am I after the wire hits?"
Ask the user: "If you sold your business tomorrow and couldn't work for a year, what would you do with your time? Not your money — your time."
Mike Brown's framework: there are two modes of wealth.
Most founders never make the mental shift from [[frameworks/accumulator-to-defender|accumulator to defender]]. They keep taking accumulator-level risks with defender-level money and blow up their post-exit wealth.
Ask the user: "Are you in accumulator mode or defender mode right now? When do you plan to switch?"
Define your ideal exit scenario:
Write it out. This becomes your north star.
After the user completes their final exercise, close with:
"You've now worked through the full deal lifecycle — sourcing, structuring, negotiating, and exiting. Most people learn this over 10 years of expensive mistakes. The frameworks are here. The question is whether you'll use them on a real deal."
Ask: "What was the single most useful thing from this masterclass for your specific situation?"
Then ask: "What's the one action you're going to take this week?"
Read these for additional frameworks when the user's deal situation calls for them:
references/frameworks/acquisition-entrepreneurship.md for the full case for buying vs. buildingreferences/frameworks/zero-dollar-acquisition.md for zero-money-down deal structuresreferences/frameworks/client-financed-acquisition.md for Hormozi's client-financed modelreferences/frameworks/seller-financing.md for seller note mechanics and negotiationreferences/frameworks/sba-loans.md for SBA 7(a) loan qualification and processreferences/frameworks/pe-rollup-valuation-arbitrage.md for PE rollup math and multiple arbitragereferences/frameworks/roll-up-strategies.md for industry-specific rollup playbooksreferences/frameworks/three-method-company-valuation.md for earnings, formula, and comparable valuation methodsreferences/frameworks/company-sale-courtship.md for the Altucher dating metaphor and courtship processreferences/frameworks/post-exit-identity.md for post-exit psychology and identity preparationreferences/frameworks/accumulator-to-defender.md for the wealth mode transition after exitreferences/frameworks/hostile-public-offer-playbook.md for hostile offer defense and strategyreferences/frameworks/private-equity.md for PE fund mechanics, carry, and deal structuresreferences/frameworks/permanent-equity.md for Beshore's long-hold approach to deal-makingreferences/frameworks/pre-deposit-development.md for real estate pre-deposit deal structuresPeople profiles relevant to deal-making:
references/people/codie-sanchez.md for zero-dollar acquisition methodologyreferences/people/brent-beshore.md for people diligence in dealsreferences/people/andrew-wilkinson.md for Tiny's deal sourcing and CEO hiringreferences/people/ben-horowitz.md for VC-side deal perspective| Guest | Topic | Transcript |
|---|---|---|
| Sarah Moore | Mass outreach deal sourcing | transcripts/mfm/2024-04-17-data-backed-businesses-guaranteed-to-make-1m-from-day-1.md |
| Andrew Wilkinson / Jeremy Giffin | Hang around the hoop | transcripts/mfm/2024-04-17-data-backed-businesses-guaranteed-to-make-1m-from-day-1.md |
| James Altucher | Three valuation methods, courtship selling | transcripts/mfm/2020-05-26-entrepreneur-who-lost-millions-breaks-down-how-to-come-back-financially.md |
| Codie Sanchez | Zero-dollar acquisitions | transcripts/mfm/2021-04-28-how-to-buy-distressed-assets-how-to-network-with-codie-sanchez.md |
| Alex Hormozi | Client-financed acquisitions | transcripts/mfm/2025-08-06-these-4-math-equations-will-make-you-a-millionaire-alex-hormozi.md |
| Suli Ali | Rollup arbitrage, signal without desperation | transcripts/mfm/2023-01-24-behind-the-scenes-of-selling-my-company-for-millions-suli-ali-410.md |
| Preston Holland | Pre-deposit development | transcripts/mfm/2024-06-03-this-50myr-side-hustle-is-on-track-to-make-1-billion-by-2030.md |
| Chris Voss | Tactical empathy, accusation audits, labels | transcripts/mfm/2025-09-17-5-lessons-in-business-negotiation-from-an-fbi-hostage-negotiator.md |
| [[frameworks/shaan-puri | Shaan Puri]] | Skeleton disclosure, move to the end |